An ideal wife should be a good housewife, a caring mother, a wonderful lover, a faithful friend… And an ideal wife knows how to give her husband a pleasant surprise. Let's try?
Give him a massage
- Dim the lights, put on soft music and light the candles. Lay your husband down on a carpet or a firm mattress. The main thing is that the surface is hard.
- Add a few drops of aromatic to the massage oil. Pour some oil into your palm and rub it in. Then run your hands from bottom to top along the man's back, without touching the skin, so that he can feel the warmth of your hands.
- Lower your hands on his shoulders and slowly move along the spine (from top to bottom towards the sacrum) and along the buttocks (from the sacrum to the hip joints). Run your hands along the sides, massage the neck.
- Start massaging the back from the spine along the ribs with stroking movements, gradually increasing the pressure and amplitude. The fleshy parts of the buttocks can be massaged even with fists, and the area of the spine, where the bones are located closer to the skin, with palms.
- When finishing the massage, make gentle movements with your fingertips, as if brushing something light.
Groast him a steak
The most important thing is to choose the right meat. The tenderloin is best, but a thick edge will do just fine. Good meat should be blood red: the lighter it is, the less juicy. There should be only small streaks of fat in the piece. Don't try to save money! After all, you don't spoil your husband with delicacies every day.
You will need: 800 g beef, ½ teaspoon ground black pepper, 2 tbsp. tablespoons thyme, vegetable oil.
Sprinkle meat on both sides with pepper and thyme, brush with vegetable oil. Put on a plate and leave for half an hour at room temperature. Lightly grease the bottom of the pan with vegetable oil, put the meat in a hot pan and fry on each side until cooked through. Leave the cooked meat for 5 minutes, then cut into slices.
Wake him up in the morning
Let from time to time your husband wakes up in the morning not from the alarm signal, but from your gentle touch. Wake up before your husband. Take off your favorite oversized pajamas and put on a silk nightgown. Wash, perfume and climb into bed and wake up your husband with light touches. Depict a “butterfly kiss” - blink, touching his cheek with eyelashes, whisper something gentle in his ear. And a great mood for the whole day is guaranteed for both of you.
Touching the face is always very pleasant. And when the hands of a loved one not only touch, but also take care of a man’s face, it’s doubly pleasant.
So, put your husband in a comfortable chair or high chair, let him lean back and relax. Place a hot, damp towel over his face and neck to soften his skin. When the towel has cooled, remove it and apply shaving cream or foam to your face and neck. Shave in the direction of hair growth, starting with sideburns, moving towards the neck. Repeat the procedure with a hot towel, then shave again, but against the hair growth and starting from the neck. Another hot towel. And finally, cold to close the pores and refresh the skin. Finish off with a light facial massage with aftershave cream or cologne.
Show him a striptease
The most important thing here is the mood. If you are shy or not confident in your abilities, postpone the striptease until better times. And if you have long wanted to do this, but you still haven’t decided, then it’s worth a try. To begin, rehearse in front of a mirror to light, pleasant music. A woman who enjoys her body and dancing is always sexy. Do not try to copy the movements of professional strippers. You can just dance and undress in the dance. Rehearse the movements to feel free. Choose clothes that you can easily take off without getting tangled in laces and fasteners. Don't think about how perfect you are moving. Dance as if you are doing it alone, for yourself. If you don't feel confident enough to take off all your clothes, stay in nice underwear or throw on a translucent scarf.
Learn to play preference
While on Saturday evening your husband and his friends “paint bullets”, you miss being alone and feel superfluous in this celebration of life. A familiar picture? You cannot force your husband and his friends to dislike preference. But it's up to you to learn how to play it. And imagine how amazed and proud your husband will be if one evening you beat all the experienced male players.
Be on good terms with his boss
You are the most important person for your husband in your personal life, and the boss is the main person in your professional life. And, if you go to corporate events with your husband, your task is to establish respectful relations with his superiors. The main rule when communicating with your husband's boss: you absolutely do not need to make a lasting impression on him. You don't want to make your spouse jealous, do you? Your first goal is to show your boss how much you and your spouse appreciate them. Be modest, do not try to wipe your spouse into the background and listen with enthusiasm to everything that the boss has to say. Ask questions, give the impression that you are very interested in listening to the boss. Your second goal is to show your spouse at their best. Direct the conversation towards his interests or lead the conversation to a story he tells well. Help him feel on horseback! If the conversation goes about the work of the company, it’s a good idea to demonstrate that you are in the know and follow your husband’s career. On the other hand, your awareness should not be excessive, otherwise it may give the impression that your husband is not able to keep confidential information.
Throw him a party
If you arrange a surprise for your husband's birthday instead of the usual feast, he will never forget this. The surprise scenario can be very simple. For example, the old joke about an “empty” apartment and friends who suddenly jump out of nooks and yells: “Congratulations!” Hint to your husband that you are planning something for the evening, but do not specify what exactly. For example, say that you are arranging his birthday in the country, but do not mention the arrival of friends. If you decide to have a party, then the surprise for him will be the appearance of an old school friend with whom he has long wanted to meet, but did not find the time.
Treat him with sweets
It's hard for a real macho to admit that he is not indifferent to sweets. But the main beauty of marriage lies precisely in the fact that you can not hide your little weaknesses from your own wife, because she already guessed about them a long time ago.
Bake your husband a chocolate chip cookie. Mix 1.5 cups of flour, 1 teaspoon of soda and 1 teaspoon of s alt, set aside. Beat with a mixer softened margarine, 0.5 cups sugar, 1 cup brown sugar, 1 teaspoon vanilla. Add 2 eggs and beat until fluffy. Add flour mixture, 2 cups oatmeal (plain Hercules will do) and chopped chocolate into small pieces. Spoon batter onto a baking sheet covered with waxed paper and bake at 170 degrees for 10-12 minutes.
Call him at work
Surely your husband has long been accustomed to the fact that if you call him at work, then only on business. Ask him not to forget to stop by the store, remind him to pick up the mixer from the repair, find out if he will soon come home and fix the faucet in the bathroom. He is so used to it that he does not expect anything else. Surprise your spouse by calling him to tell him how you feel. Let him know that you think of him not only in connection with leaking taps. And that, although you have been together for many years, he is the most desired and most beloved. You can whisper something spicy and bold to your husband, or you can whisper something gentle and romantic. The main thing is to make him feel loved. If you decide to say something sexual, do not describe your fantasies in detail, leave room for your husband's imagination:
Remember you asked me… (More on how he asked you to do something sexy but you were shy or too tired to comply.) I've been thinking about this all day today - can't wait when you get home.
I remembered how you like it when I put on… (fill in the blank). So today I'm going to wear this.
You are the only man who can make me happy. And tonight I'll prove it to you.
Upgrade his wardrobe
Perhaps your husband thinks that real men don't care about looks. But by and large, it depends on the woman how her man looks. And, even if the spouse still wears the sweater that his mother gave him for his twentieth birthday, and is suspicious of everything new, persuade him to change his style a little. And as soon as others start complimenting him, he will learn to appreciate your advice.
- Try to replace the classic tie with a very fashionable one this season - narrow.
- Shirts with a high stand (sometimes with two buttons) are in fashion. The collar should be voluminous.
- If your husband is not afraid to experiment, buy him a bright sweater with a round or V-neck. It can be worn with jeans, and in cold weather with a suit.
- Another trendy detail is a knitted vest.
- Polo shirts are very relevant in summer - knitted T-shirts with short sleeves and a shirt collar, usually with three buttons.
- The last peep of sports style - badges. Order a badge with your image and decorate your husband's favorite baseball cap with it. And let him just try not to wear it!
- It's time to get rid of pointy shoes, and instead pick up shoes with round toes.