How to turn a casual relationship into a serious relationship?

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How to turn a casual relationship into a serious relationship?
How to turn a casual relationship into a serious relationship?
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Hooray, he called you back after the first time… You met again and again… And then, like in Til Schweiger’s film “Handsome”: a few stormy nights, and you begin to become attached to your partner more and more. And ask yourself: what is it for him - an open relationship? Or are you serious? How to find out and not frighten off a man, and ideally, make sure that you are more than just a girl for a pleasant weekend?

How to turn a casual relationship into a serious relationship?

Men who DO turned to for advice offer the following dialogues:

1. You strike up a conversation about whether you can consider each other a couple and you see how tense he is. Then you continue as if nothing had happened: "I hate labeling myself, but I need to know what to say to other guys when they ask if I'm free."

How it works: a hint of rivalry for a man as a challenge. If he feels that he can lose you, he may realize how much you are dear to him.

2. He can't decide what he wants. You say: “It's okay. But if we don’t decide who we are to each other in a month, let’s remain friends.”

How it works: you are calm, you do not make claims to him, you do not demand anything from him. You just want to end an unpromising relationship. The thought that you are going to demote him to friend status is like feeling like he is losing control of the situation.

3. He lays out a trump card: "I'm not ready now for a serious relationship." You say: “So I'm not eager to put on a veil as soon as possible. I just wanted clarity.”

How it works: you have changed the scenario: now he is the victim. Spend less time with him. If he doesn't try to win you over, then to hell with him.

Of course, any of these methods may not work and end up in a breakup. If you want a relationship without certainty and almost certainly without a future, you can play it safe. Based on materials from cosmo.ru, photo fotoimedia / Ingram.

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