How to teach him to do cunnilingus

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How to teach him to do cunnilingus
How to teach him to do cunnilingus
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For most women, cunnilingus is the most exquisite caress she can receive from a man. But, unfortunately, many men are in no hurry to deliver this pleasure to their women. Let's see why this happens and how to make this type of caress your man's favorite.

How to teach him to do cunnilingus

Valeria Aginskaya

sexologist, program director of the Secrets Sex Education Center

First, let's look at the psychological aspect. Many women believe that the principle “you give me - I tell you” should operate in sex. That is, if I gave you a blowjob, be kind, give me cunnilingus too. Unfortunately, from a man's point of view, doing cunnilingus to a woman, even if he is beloved, is a kind of feat, and he needs to break more than one internal barrier. Firstly, the opinion of society puts pressure on him - this is considered something shameful. Secondly, do not forget that men and women have different views on the same things: for example, in the vast majority of women, even after learning about a man’s infidelity, they will try to keep him, while men simply leave. That is, men are much more possessive and have a sharper attitude towards everything that concerns their women. From my experience, I will say that this is expressed in the fact that when a man decides to give you cunnilingus, he involuntarily remembers all the men that you had before him. So, ladies, if you want your man to cunnilingus you, try to make sure he never finds out about your sexual experiences with other men - or at least keep the details to a minimum.

Now let's give some simple tips:

· Before you start teaching a man how to cunnilingus, you should start with yourself - yes, yes, with yourself. Many of us have learned from childhood that showing our genitals to someone is bad, and now, as adult women, we are still embarrassed to show our naked body even to our beloved man. Therefore, it is extremely important to stop being shy about showing your genitals to your beloved man. Turn on the light, take off the blanket, let your partner admire your body in every detail. For a man, there is nothing more beautiful than your naked body. The closer your genitals are to him, the higher the chance to interest him.

· Men tend to cunnilingus in two ways: as a token of gratitude for an amazing blowjob or if he wants to bring you to orgasm at any cost. Our task is to change. Therefore, if you give a blowjob, remember: a man must see that you really fucking like it, and not that you are serving a labor service. You must infect your partner with your passion.

· Be sure to take a shower with intimate gel before sex. Your genitals are acidic, and in this procedure, it is necessary to use an intimate gel, as it also has an acidic base, and not alkaline, like regular soap.

· In order to hint about your desire to a man, the 69 position is ideal. It is enough to place your genitals within reach of his tongue and show your arousal with your hips while selflessly performing a blowjob. He will easily catch the true purpose of these gestures and, if you did everything right, he will forget about all his prejudices.

· To surprise your man and "sweeten" him for the first time, find out what fruit your man loves and use an oral lubricant with that flavor.

· Even if you don't quite like the way he performed this ritual the first time, it's worth saying that it was the best sex of your life. Positive feedback will build his confidence, and he will be more willing to follow it next time.

· Many men complain about the length of cunnilingus. Therefore, before hinting at cunnilingus to a man, study your body, find out in what position you are able to get an orgasm as quickly as possible, what caresses and what erogenous zones will most quickly help you achieve the desired finale. If you are having difficulty achieving a quick orgasm, use a stimulating cream.

· In the future, do not be shy, show with your excitement and groans exactly how you like it and what you get more pleasure from. Use the phrases "I want" and "I like." Speak in a passionate voice - by no means indifferent. Men also receive part of the excitement through their ears, and for them these phrases are not only a call to action, but also an additional stimulation of arousal. Try not to use negative phrases like “I don’t like it.”

· Another little trick would be if you fall asleep in the same position immediately after getting an orgasm, since a real orgasm contributes to this. The fact that he "loved" you to the point of exhaustion will flatter the male pride much more than any laudatory odes.

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