You've been dating for a couple of weeks or months. Either in the city, or at one of you. Everything seems to be fine, but it is completely unknown how serious his (and your) plans are. Here are a few things you should definitely pay attention to!
1. It is unknown if they develop at all
Not "something" yet, not "nothing" anymore. And you sit and think: “It seems that everything is fine, but it is not clear how everything will go on. It would be nice if he hinted!”
2. Friends ask about your relationship with that guy
And you do not know what to answer them. You can always smile and say, “It's okay. Weird, but good." And then quickly leave the room so as not to answer the following questions.
3. Difficult to introduce him to friends
What to call it? "Hi, this is Sasha." Not "my boyfriend" or "my friend" because none of that is true. And that's the worst.
4. You have to carry important little things with you
You don't know yet if you can leave them at his place, so every time you go with a makeup bag and a set of toothpaste, shampoo, pads and more.
5. Want to ask his neighbors what they think of you
But it will look stupid. In addition, it is quite difficult to talk to them face to face, and often they are generally so nasty that it is better not to start.
6. You know you can fall in love
And at the same time it is completely incomprehensible what he feels for you. You are friends? It seems not quite. Pair? Also unknown. Are you the one or one of them? Enough already!
7. You have to keep track of the balance in the correspondence
Messages shouldn't be too many to scare him off, or too few to keep him from letting things drift. Is one a day enough? It doesn't really sound like a "girl", but you're already in constant contact.
8. It is unknown if you will meet on Friday
Your dates are often last minute and if you have no other plans. Is it worth asking? Or will he say "I don't know, I'm not your boyfriend"? Here you are, waiting for a call, like your grandmother…
9. Try not to follow his social media accounts
It will be unpleasant if he flirts with someone else because you are not together.
10. Trying to call it something
You are people who sleep together. Or - which could be together. In general, relationships are just an opportunity, one of the options for the development of events.
11. Do you want to have a serious talk with him
And finally find out what you mean to each other. No, do not schedule a wedding for July! Just to understand, are you just spending time together or is there really something between you?